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Lisa Pippus's avatar

Definitely throw them a party. When I was 37 and faced with the news that I had to lose my uterus, both ovaries and fallopian tubes because they were trying to kill me (and the concurrent news that I would never fulfill the dream of carrying a child within my body), I threw a "menopause party" with about 10 of my closest girlfriends. I created a little ceremony, and then asked that each of these women would bring a prayer, or a blessing or a scripture verse to read over me as I entered this transition to a new phase of life. I also asked one to read over us all a beautiful reading from the Protestant prayer book "Every Moment Holy" entitled "A Liturgy for the Death of a Dream". I wore a crown made of flowers and my girlfriends dressed up, and together we ritualized a transition that has been so hard and and in some ways good. I will never forget that night, being blessed into a new season, and I have clung to some of the blessings they brought ever since.

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Jill Garvey's avatar

One of the verses that I hold onto is: “ I know the plans I have for you, ”declares the Lord, “ plans to prosper you and not harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” Jeremiah 29:11 I commit to saying this daily for you and your healing. Jill Garvey

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